Matthew Friese

Matthew Friese

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Healthy Leaders Create Healthy Cultures. Matthew Friese helps leaders connect with God, understand themselves, and connect more effectively with others—turning self-awareness into alignment, stronger relationships, healthier teams, and lasting impact.

25 reviews

24 verified

Healthy leaders create healthy cultures.


For more than 30 years, Matthew Friese has worked with leaders, teams, couples, families, churches, nonprofits, and military organizations—and he has discovered a consistent truth: wherever you go, there you are.


Leaders carry themselves into every room they enter. Their mindset, emotional health, relationships, habits, communication patterns, unresolved experiences, and personal alignment eventually influence the people and cultures they lead.


That's why Matthew believes many leadership problems aren't simply strategy problems. They're health problems.


Matthew is the founder of C3 Healthy Leadership, a leadership-development organization built around three essential connections:


Connect with God. Connect with Self. Connect with Others.


Through keynote speaking, coaching, and training, Matthew helps leaders move beyond simply becoming better at what they do to becoming healthier in who they are. His approach develops leadership from the inside out, helping individuals and teams strengthen self-awareness, personal alignment, communication, trust, relationships, and organizational health.


The C3 development process is practical and memorable:

Heart Check — Assess. What is happening inside of me?

Alignment — Align. Where is there a gap between what I believe, what I value, and how I am actually leading?

Next Step — Act. What intentional action will move me toward greater health and effectiveness?


Matthew brings a unique combination of experience to the platform. His background includes more than three decades of pastoral ministry, military chaplaincy, keynote speaking, leadership development, coaching, training, crisis care, marriage and family resiliency, and organizational leadership. He has worked with people during some of life's most meaningful moments as well as its most difficult seasons.


That experience allows Matthew to connect leadership principles with real life. His presentations are engaging, practical, relational, and challenging. He doesn't simply want an audience to leave inspired. He wants them to leave asking:


What is happening in me? Where do I need to realign? What is my next step?


Matthew's professional training provides organizations with additional options for customized leadership and team development. His credentials include Maxwell Leadership Certified speaking, coaching, training, Mastermind facilitation and DISC behavioral assessment, along with certified facilitation in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People®, Speed of Trust®, PsychoGeometrics®/SHAPES, PREPARE/ENRICH, PREP relationship programs, military and family resiliency programs, and other leadership and relationship-development resources.


These tools allow Matthew to move beyond the keynote when an organization wants deeper development. A speaking engagement can become a workshop. A workshop can lead to team development. Team development can continue through coaching and sustained leadership growth.


For faith-based organizations, Matthew openly integrates biblical truth and spiritual formation into leadership development. For military, nonprofit, and organizational audiences, he brings the same inside-out principles through the language of self-awareness, alignment, trust, communication, relationships, resilience, and healthy leadership.


Whether speaking to hundreds from a platform, facilitating a leadership team, or coaching an individual leader, Matthew's goal remains the same:


Develop healthy leaders who create healthy cultures and lasting impact.

Connect with God. Connect with Self. Connect with Others.

Healthy Leaders. Healthy Cultures. Lasting Impact.

Healthy leaders create healthy cultures.


For more than 30 years, Matthew Friese has worked with leaders, teams, couples, families, churches, nonprofits, and military organizations—and he has discovered a consistent truth: wherever you go, there you are.


Leaders carry themselves into every room they enter. Their mindset, emotional health, relationships, habits, communication patterns, unresolved experiences, and personal alignment eventually influence the people and cultures they lead.


That's why Matthew believes many leadership problems aren't simply strategy problems. They're health problems.


Matthew is the founder of C3 Healthy Leadership, a leadership-development organization built around three essential connections:


Connect with God. Connect with Self. Connect with Others.


Through keynote speaking, coaching, and training, Matthew helps leaders move beyond simply becoming better at what they do to becoming healthier in who they are. His approach develops leadership from the inside out, helping individuals and teams strengthen self-awareness, personal alignment, communication, trust, relationships, and organizational health.


The C3 development process is practical and memorable:

Heart Check — Assess. What is happening inside of me?

Alignment — Align. Where is there a gap between what I believe, what I value, and how I am actually leading?

Next Step — Act. What intentional action will move me toward greater health and effectiveness?


Matthew brings a unique combination of experience to the platform. His background includes more than three decades of pastoral ministry, military chaplaincy, keynote speaking, leadership development, coaching, training, crisis care, marriage and family resiliency, and organizational leadership. He has worked with people during some of life's most meaningful moments as well as its most difficult seasons.


That experience allows Matthew to connect leadership principles with real life. His presentations are engaging, practical, relational, and challenging. He doesn't simply want an audience to leave inspired. He wants them to leave asking:


What is happening in me? Where do I need to realign? What is my next step?


Matthew's professional training provides organizations with additional options for customized leadership and team development. His credentials include Maxwell Leadership Certified speaking, coaching, training, Mastermind facilitation and DISC behavioral assessment, along with certified facilitation in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People®, Speed of Trust®, PsychoGeometrics®/SHAPES, PREPARE/ENRICH, PREP relationship programs, military and family resiliency programs, and other leadership and relationship-development resources.


These tools allow Matthew to move beyond the keynote when an organization wants deeper development. A speaking engagement can become a workshop. A workshop can lead to team development. Team development can continue through coaching and sustained leadership growth.


For faith-based organizations, Matthew openly integrates biblical truth and spiritual formation into leadership development. For military, nonprofit, and organizational audiences, he brings the same inside-out principles through the language of self-awareness, alignment, trust, communication, relationships, resilience, and healthy leadership.


Whether speaking to hundreds from a platform, facilitating a leadership team, or coaching an individual leader, Matthew's goal remains the same:


Develop healthy leaders who create healthy cultures and lasting impact.

Connect with God. Connect with Self. Connect with Others.

Healthy Leaders. Healthy Cultures. Lasting Impact.

Maxwell Leadership Mastermind Groups: Grow Yourself. Grow Your Leadership. Grow Your Impact.

Format: 4–12 week Mastermind / Leadership Development Series; 60–90 minute facilitated sessions; available in-person or virtually

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Pastors, ministry teams, executives,...

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DISC Consultant

Program Title

Understanding Yourself, Understanding Your Team: Building Stronger Teams Through DISC

Format: 60–90 minute keynote, workshop, or breakout; also available as a half-day team development...

CoachingRelationshipsDISC Behavioral AnalysisEducational / InformativeInspirational / Life-changingProfessionalism

SHAPES: Understanding Yourself and the People You Lead

Format: 60–90-minute keynote, workshop, or breakout; also available as a half-day or full-day interactive team-development experience

This program is perfect for:

Leadership teams seeking a highly...

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Oxygen - Building Stronger Families: Creating Connection That Lasts

Format: 60–90 minute keynote, workshop, or breakout; also available as a half-day or full-day family enrichment experience

This program is perfect for:

Couples and families who want to strengthen...

RelationshipsChristian SpeakerAudience ActivityEducational / InformativeInspirational / Life-changingProfessionalism

Program 1: Home Run — Building Healthy, Lasting Relationships

Format: 60–90 minute keynote, workshop, or breakout; also available as a half-day or full-day relationship-development experience

This program is perfect for:

Couples, families, churches, military...

CoachingRelationshipsConflict ResolutionAudience ActivityEducational / InformativeInspirational / Life-changing

Program 2: LINKS — Strengthening the Relationships That Matter Most

Format: 60–90 minute keynote, workshop, or breakout; also available as a half-day or full-day interactive relationship workshop

This program is perfect for:

Couples and individuals seeking greater...

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Program 3: PICK — How to Avoid Falling for a Jerk (or Jerkette)

Format: 60–90 minute keynote, workshop, or breakout; also available as a multi-session or half-day relationship-development program

This program is perfect for:

Singles, young adults, dating couples,...

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Fearless Marriage — PREP 8.0: Building Stronger, Safer & More Connected Relationships

Format: Interactive couples workshop / marriage enrichment program; available in flexible workshop, retreat, and multi-session formats consistent with PREP curriculum guidelines

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Got Your Back: Strengthening Relationships, Resilience & Readiness

Format: Interactive workshop / military resiliency training; flexible delivery using the Got Your Back curriculum

This program is perfect for:

Active-duty, Guard, and Reserve service members—whether...

CoachingRelationshipsMilitaryAudience ActivityEducational / InformativeInspirational / Life-changingProfessionalism

Active Military Families: Strengthening the Family Behind the Mission

Format: 60–90 minute keynote, workshop, or breakout; also available as a half-day, full-day, or retreat-style military family resiliency experience

This program is perfect for:

Military members,...

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PREPARE/ENRICH: Understand Your Relationship. Build on Your Strengths. Grow Together.

Format: 4–8 session facilitated relationship assessment and enrichment program; also available for couples, small groups, retreats, marriage enrichment programs, and customized relationship-development experiences

This program is perfect for:

CoachingRelationshipsConflict ResolutionChristian SpeakerAudience ActivityEducational / InformativeInspirational / Life-changingProfessionalism

Healthy Leaders. Healthy Cultures. — Leadership From the Inside Out

Format: 45–60 minute keynote; 60–90 minute breakout; half-day/full-day training; individual or team coaching

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Pastors, executives, managers, ministry teams, military...

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Lynden Transport, Alaska

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P.F., Vice President, Alaska Sales & Marketing, Lynden Transport, Alaska
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What impresses me most about Matthew is that he lives the life he speaks about. The quote, "Preach Jesus, and if necessary, use words," often comes to mind when I think of him. His actions consistently reflect the principles and values he teaches each week. As Vice President of Sales and Marketing for Lynden Transport Alaska, I regularly evaluate the qualities that make exceptional leaders and team members. Matthew embodies the characteristics I look for when hiring someone to represent our company.

128th Air Refueling Wing

On-Site

C.J.L., Retired, Wing Commander, 128th Air Refueling Wing
Verified @hotmail.com

During my tenure as Wing Commander, Chaplain Matt Friese consistently transformed every speaking assignment—planned or spontaneous—into a moment of clarity, unity, and renewed purpose for airmen across the wing. His ability to read a room, speak to the heart of the challenge, and catalyze collective resolve is unmatched. He is one of the most effective communicators I have ever served alongside.

Double Honor Ministry

On-Site

J.R., Chairman of the Board, Double Honor Ministry
Verified @yahoo.com

From a context of giftedness, calling, and life experiences, Matt Friese has identified a key ingredient for a healthy and fruitful church, healthy leaders. With keen insight into the Scriptures and a passion for God's glory, he founded C3 Healthy Leadership to “cultivate cultures where lasting transformation becomes possible— from the inside out.”

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

A.H., Operations Group, 138 Fighter Wing
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Matthew is an approachable, compassionate, and genuine communicator. He listens well, gives people space to be open and honest, and never makes them feel judged or pressured. I’m not a religious person, but I always enjoy his talks because they are practical and relatable. He even connects well with our pilots—a tough audience—which speaks to his ability to engage people from a wide range of backgrounds.

Faith Bible Church

On-Site

Z.A., Teaching Pastor, Faith Bible Church
Verified @fbcwi.church

Matthew is a dynamic, engaging, and authentic speaker. He combines meaningful content with powerful personal stories in a way that keeps an audience connected and engaged. What stood out most was his ability to speak from the heart and make the message feel personal, relevant, and memorable. I would highly recommend Matthew to organizations looking for a speaker who can genuinely connect with an audience.

USAF F16 Pilot

On-Site

M.S., Col, OPS Group Commander, USAF F16 Pilot

I have had the opportunity to hear Matt Friese speak on multiple occasions. He is an engaging and thoughtful speaker who connects everyday challenges with practical ways to manage stress, strengthen family relationships, and navigate the demands of daily life. His ability to draw from real-life experiences and connect them to faith provides meaningful encouragement while helping others find perspective, balance, and purpose.

MXG Commander

On-Site

C.J.C., Senior Leader, MXG Commander
Verified @gmail.com

Friese is a dynamic speaker who maintains the target audience's attention throughout the presentation. His storytelling ability is second to none, providing thorough engagement and collaboration with students. He will keep you focused on the topic and ready for what is next.

SAIC

On-Site

R.G.A.B.M.P., Facilities Project Manager, SAIC
Verified @outlook.com

I first heard Matt preach and teach while we were deployed together. As a seminary student at the time, he reminded me of one of my favorite professors, Dr. Edward Hindson, with hints of radio host and preacher Greg Laurie. Needless to say, his teaching and preaching drew me in immediately.. Each Sunday during my time overseas, I could count on Matt to deliver an amazing and well-studied sermon.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

C.S.., A5, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @gmail.com

When Matt speaks, he gives the distinct impression of authentic agape and experience that gives him a genuine connectedness to his audience; his examples are highly relatable, his insight is universally understandable, and his take aways/calls to action are simple and doable by anyone. I have heard Matt in a variety of different settings; whether it’s a private conversation or addressing a large group, whether it’s a moment of joy or of pain, Matt knows how to reach you where you are to impart inspiration, understanding, compassion, and empathy. I highly recommend Matt as a trainer/educator because he can make the complex comprehensible, elicit action (whether it’s task completion or self-betterment), and is highly adaptable to meet the needs of his audience.

Pleasant Prairie Baptist Church

On-Site

D.D.D., Senior Pastor, Pleasant Prairie Baptist Church
Verified @gmail.com

Pastor Matt Friese has a passion to see Christ's church flourish and become the influence in our world that God intended it to be. Along with that passion, Matt is able to formulate constructive steps to help any congregation move toward Bible-based health.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

E.B., Weekend Participant, 138 Fighter Wing
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I had the opportunity to attend a Strong Bonds conference facilitated by Chaplain Matthew Friese, where he spoke on PsychoGeometrics. His delivery helped me reflect and apply his content within my personal relationships. Matthew Friese is an engaging and inspiring speaker who makes meaningful topics relatable! I highly recommend listening to him speak!!

Weekend Conference

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S.M., Attendee, Weekend Conference
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Chaplain Friese is a fabulous speaker. He is engaging and funny, but most of all has a lot of great thoughts to make not only ourselves better but also make our relationships stronger. We highly recommend attending a conference with him!

US Army

On-Site

T.C., Chaplain, US Army
Verified @gmail.com

Matt Friese is an exceptional communicator, pastor, Air Force chaplain, and leadership expert who brings passion, conviction, and clarity to every message he delivers. His ability to connect timeless leadership principles with the enduring Truth of Scripture makes him both compelling and deeply impactful. I highly recommend Matt as a speaker who will challenge, encourage, inspire, and equip his audience to live and lead with purpose and conviction.

Tulsa Honor Academy

On-Site

J.M., Assistant Principal of Culture, Tulsa Honor Academy
Verified @gmail.com

He demonstrated such strong moral character and scholarship that he was immediately recognized as a leader among us. His kindness, compassion, and reflective communication style allowed him to connect with diverse groups of members, staff, and leadership alike.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

J.C., Commander FSS, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @outlook.com

Chaplain Friese always delivers a word in due season and communicates with intentionality and compassion. His speaking style is relatable and easy to follow, which keeps listeners engaged and leaves them impacted long afterwards. I strive to learn his approach towards speaking and emulate his methodologies.

Four County

On-Site

M.Y., Counselor, Four County
Verified @outlook.com

Matt has a unique ability to communicate biblical truth in a way that is engaging, relatable, and personally meaningful. After years of finding it difficult to connect in church, his authentic and practical communication helped me better understand the transformation God can bring in our lives. His messages don’t simply provide information—they help people see how real transformation can impact the way they live.

OK National Guard

On-Site

A.A., Attended of ALOK26, OK National Guard
Verified @gmail.com

More Chaplain Friese. I love hearing that man speak. His energy and enthusiasm is contagious.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

C.B., Senior Enlisted Leader, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @gmail.com

Matt is a fantastic speaker with the unique ability to deliver and synthesize information in an engaging and captivating way. I love attending his events, as he makes you feel like more than just an attendee. I highly recommend Matt for any speaking engagement.

First Southern Baptist Church

On-Site

B.E., Chairman, Trustees, First Southern Baptist Church
Verified @gmail.com

As my pastor for 4+ years, Matt delivered the spiritual food we needed to hear each week. His messages are Christ-centered, practical applications of the Living Word. His communication is clear and strong, always driving home the key points and message.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

C.V., Weekend Participant, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @aol.com

Matt has a rare ability to make a large audience feel like he is speaking to each person individually. He connected authentically with a diverse group of military families, adapting naturally to the realities and distractions of a family event while making people feel understood rather than talked at. His delivery was personal, engaging, and relatable, and I would highly recommend him to organizations looking for a speaker who can genuinely connect with diverse audiences.

Trail Life

On-Site

P.M., Regional Coordinator, Trail Life
Verified @gmail.com

Matt Friese communicates his subject completely, so everyone gets the point he is talking about. Matt has great insight into Biblical principles. He has always completely explained the most complicated doctrine. Matt is truly a man of God

128 Air Refueling Wing

On-Site

N.S., Command Chief, 128 Air Refueling Wing
Verified @yahoo.com

As a couple, we have had our ups and downs, but our strength lies in our desire to understand each other. Strong Bond weekends have helped build our foundation, and we attribute much of our communication skills to what Chaplain Matt Friese taught us.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

T.C., Military Chaplain, Hospice Chaplain, Pastor, Author, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @gmail.com

Matthew Friese is a highly skilled speaker who can engage audiences while providing valuable teaching and practical, life-changing tools to address a wide range of important topics. I would highly recommend without hesitation.

Wisconsin Air National Guard

On-Site

P.S., Chapel Superintendent, Wisconsin Air National Guard
Verified @msn.com

Chaplain Friese embodies true spiritual leadership, demonstrating a deep dedication to service and an unwavering faith girded in integrity.

Ford - Wulf - Bruns

On-Site

G.H., Funeral Assistant, Ford - Wulf - Bruns
Verified @yahoo.com

Very Compassionate, very good speaker, really prepared!