Matthew Friese

Matthew Friese

OK, US

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Experience how Matthew guides leaders to transform people challenges into team advantages by developing greater self-awareness, building healthier relationships, strengthening diverse teams, and creating thriving cultures that deliver meaningful, lasting impact.

Leadership Built from the Inside Out!

27 reviews

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What if your organization's greatest leadership challenge isn't your strategy, systems, or even your people—but what's happening within the people leading them?


Every organization wants stronger leaders, healthier teams, and better results. Yet even the best strategies struggle when leaders lack self-awareness, communication breaks down, trust erodes, and talented people struggle to work together.

Because the health of your organization is profoundly influenced by the health of the people leading it.


WHY MATTHEW?

With more than three decades of pastoral, military, and organizational leadership experience, Matthew brings a distinctive perspective to the challenges leaders face.

Having walked alongside people through leadership pressures, organizational conflict, personal challenges, and life's most demanding moments, Matthew understands something that leadership theories alone cannot teach:

Leadership isn't simply about what you know or what you accomplish. It's about who you are becoming—and what others experience because of it.

Through compelling stories, authentic connection, engaging experiences, and practical leadership insights, Matthew challenges audiences to look beyond titles, recognize blind spots, understand differences, and build relationships that strengthen people and organizations.


WHAT WILL YOUR AUDIENCE GAIN?

Greater Self-Awareness. Recognize personal strengths, behavioral tendencies, and blind spots that influence leadership effectiveness.

Stronger Communication. Understand differences, navigate friction, and turn individual strengths into team advantages.

Deeper Trust and Connection. Build relationships where people feel valued, supported, and confident they can count on one another.

Intentional Growth. Move beyond inspiration with practical commitments that strengthen leadership habits, relationships, and team culture.


MORE THAN A KEYNOTE. A PATHWAY TO GROWTH.

Whether delivering a thought-provoking keynote, facilitating interactive team training, guiding a leadership mastermind, or providing behavioral assessments and coaching, Matthew creates experiences designed to move people from awareness to understanding—and from understanding to action.

Your audience won't simply leave thinking differently about leadership. They'll leave equipped to lead differently.


THE DIFFERENCE

Matthew doesn't simply help organizations develop better leaders.

He helps leaders become healthier from the inside out—so they can build stronger relationships, develop healthier teams, and create cultures where people thrive.


Leadership Built from the Inside Out!

What if your organization's greatest leadership challenge isn't your strategy, systems, or even your people—but what's happening within the people leading them?


Every organization wants stronger leaders, healthier teams, and better results. Yet even the best strategies struggle when leaders lack self-awareness, communication breaks down, trust erodes, and talented people struggle to work together.

Because the health of your organization is profoundly influenced by the health of the people leading it.


WHY MATTHEW?

With more than three decades of pastoral, military, and organizational leadership experience, Matthew brings a distinctive perspective to the challenges leaders face.

Having walked alongside people through leadership pressures, organizational conflict, personal challenges, and life's most demanding moments, Matthew understands something that leadership theories alone cannot teach:

Leadership isn't simply about what you know or what you accomplish. It's about who you are becoming—and what others experience because of it.

Through compelling stories, authentic connection, engaging experiences, and practical leadership insights, Matthew challenges audiences to look beyond titles, recognize blind spots, understand differences, and build relationships that strengthen people and organizations.


WHAT WILL YOUR AUDIENCE GAIN?

Greater Self-Awareness. Recognize personal strengths, behavioral tendencies, and blind spots that influence leadership effectiveness.

Stronger Communication. Understand differences, navigate friction, and turn individual strengths into team advantages.

Deeper Trust and Connection. Build relationships where people feel valued, supported, and confident they can count on one another.

Intentional Growth. Move beyond inspiration with practical commitments that strengthen leadership habits, relationships, and team culture.


MORE THAN A KEYNOTE. A PATHWAY TO GROWTH.

Whether delivering a thought-provoking keynote, facilitating interactive team training, guiding a leadership mastermind, or providing behavioral assessments and coaching, Matthew creates experiences designed to move people from awareness to understanding—and from understanding to action.

Your audience won't simply leave thinking differently about leadership. They'll leave equipped to lead differently.


THE DIFFERENCE

Matthew doesn't simply help organizations develop better leaders.

He helps leaders become healthier from the inside out—so they can build stronger relationships, develop healthier teams, and create cultures where people thrive.


Leadership Built from the Inside Out!

Beyond the Title — Becoming the Leader Others Need You to Be

You can have the right title, the right experience, and the right strategy—and still wonder why people have a hard time following you!

Leadership isn't measured simply by what you accomplish. It's revealed in how you respond under pressure, how you treat people when things go wrong, and what others experience because of your...

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From Friction to Connection — Transforming Team Differences into Team Strengths

Every team has them. The person who challenges everything. The one who needs every detail. The one who moves too quickly—or not quickly enough. The one whose approach seems completely different from yours.

Through engaging stories, practical insights, and interactive experiences built around See More

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The Self-Aware Leader — Understanding Your Strengths, Blind Spots, and Behavioral Style

You know what you intended to communicate. But do you know what others actually heard?

You know the kind of leader you want to be. But do you understand what people experience when you lead?

The gap between your intentions and your impact may be the...

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Don't Win at Work and Lose at Home — Building Success Without Sacrificing What Matters Most

What if your greatest leadership success comes at the expense of the relationships that matter most?

Discover how to achieve professional success without sacrificing personal connection. Learn practical ways to strengthen communication, protect meaningful relationships, and intentionally invest in the people who matter most.

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Got Your Back — Building a Culture Where People Look Out for One Another

When life gets difficult, who can you count on—and who knows they can count on you?

Every organization has people who show up, work hard, carry responsibility, and appear to have everything under control.

Being surrounded by people isn't the same as...

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BEYOND INSPIRATION — Turning Leadership Principles into Lasting Growth

Your leaders don't need another great idea they'll forget by Monday. They need a process that helps them become better leaders.

Every year, organizations invest in conferences, leadership books, workshops, and motivational experiences. People leave inspired, energized, and ready to change. Then Monday happens.

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Lynden Transport, Alaska

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P.F., Vice President, Alaska Sales & Marketing, Lynden Transport, Alaska
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What impresses me most about Matthew is that he lives the life he speaks about. The quote, "Preach Jesus, and if necessary, use words," often comes to mind when I think of him. His actions consistently reflect the principles and values he teaches each week. As Vice President of Sales and Marketing for Lynden Transport Alaska, I regularly evaluate the qualities that make exceptional leaders and team members. Matthew embodies the characteristics I look for when hiring someone to represent our company.

128th Air Refueling Wing

On-Site

C.J.L., Retired, Wing Commander, 128th Air Refueling Wing
Verified @hotmail.com

During my tenure as Wing Commander, Chaplain Matt Friese consistently transformed every speaking assignment—planned or spontaneous—into a moment of clarity, unity, and renewed purpose for airmen across the wing. His ability to read a room, speak to the heart of the challenge, and catalyze collective resolve is unmatched. He is one of the most effective communicators I have ever served alongside.

Double Honor Ministry

On-Site

J.R., Chairman of the Board, Double Honor Ministry
Verified @yahoo.com

From a context of giftedness, calling, and life experiences, Matt Friese has identified a key ingredient for a healthy and fruitful church, healthy leaders. With keen insight into the Scriptures and a passion for God's glory, he founded C3 Healthy Leadership to “cultivate cultures where lasting transformation becomes possible— from the inside out.”

ALOK26

On-Site

A.F., Chief Master Sergeant, ALOK26
Verified @yahoo.com

Matt Friese is an exceptionally captivating speaker whose energy, enthusiasm, and authenticity immediately draw in the audience. He communicates with clarity and purpose, making the message both relatable and memorable for Airmen at every level. His ability to connect personally with the audience is a particular strength. The feedback from the ALOK 26 professional development session reflects this well—attendees specifically asked for “more Chaplain Friese,” noting that they enjoy hearing him speak and that his energy and enthusiasm were contagious. His presence adds real value to professional development events, and I strongly recommend him as a speaker.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

A.H., Operations Group, 138 Fighter Wing
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Matthew is an approachable, compassionate, and genuine communicator. He listens well, gives people space to be open and honest, and never makes them feel judged or pressured. I’m not a religious person, but I always enjoy his talks because they are practical and relatable. He even connects well with our pilots—a tough audience—which speaks to his ability to engage people from a wide range of backgrounds.

Faith Bible Church

On-Site

Z.A., Teaching Pastor, Faith Bible Church
Verified @fbcwi.church

Matthew is a dynamic, engaging, and authentic speaker. He combines meaningful content with powerful personal stories in a way that keeps an audience connected and engaged. What stood out most was his ability to speak from the heart and make the message feel personal, relevant, and memorable. I would highly recommend Matthew to organizations looking for a speaker who can genuinely connect with an audience.

MXG Commander

On-Site

C.J.C., Senior Leader, MXG Commander
Verified @gmail.com

Friese is a dynamic speaker who maintains the target audience's attention throughout the presentation. His storytelling ability is second to none, providing thorough engagement and collaboration with students. He will keep you focused on the topic and ready for what is next.

SAIC

On-Site

R.G.A.B.M.P., Facilities Project Manager, SAIC
Verified @outlook.com

I first heard Matt preach and teach while we were deployed together. As a seminary student at the time, he reminded me of one of my favorite professors, Dr. Edward Hindson, with hints of radio host and preacher Greg Laurie. Needless to say, his teaching and preaching drew me in immediately.. Each Sunday during my time overseas, I could count on Matt to deliver an amazing and well-studied sermon.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

C.S.., A5, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @gmail.com

When Matt speaks, he gives the distinct impression of authentic agape and experience that gives him a genuine connectedness to his audience; his examples are highly relatable, his insight is universally understandable, and his take aways/calls to action are simple and doable by anyone. I have heard Matt in a variety of different settings; whether it’s a private conversation or addressing a large group, whether it’s a moment of joy or of pain, Matt knows how to reach you where you are to impart inspiration, understanding, compassion, and empathy. I highly recommend Matt as a trainer/educator because he can make the complex comprehensible, elicit action (whether it’s task completion or self-betterment), and is highly adaptable to meet the needs of his audience.

Weekend Conference

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S.M., Attendee, Weekend Conference
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Chaplain Friese is a fabulous speaker. He is engaging and funny, but most of all has a lot of great thoughts to make not only ourselves better but also make our relationships stronger. We highly recommend attending a conference with him!

US Army

On-Site

T.C., Chaplain, US Army
Verified @gmail.com

Matt Friese is an exceptional communicator, pastor, Air Force chaplain, and leadership expert who brings passion, conviction, and clarity to every message he delivers. His ability to connect timeless leadership principles with the enduring Truth of Scripture makes him both compelling and deeply impactful. I highly recommend Matt as a speaker who will challenge, encourage, inspire, and equip his audience to live and lead with purpose and conviction.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

E.B., Weekend Participant, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @gmail.com

I had the opportunity to attend a Strong Bonds conference facilitated by Chaplain Matthew Friese, where he spoke on PsychoGeometrics. His delivery helped me reflect and apply his content within my personal relationships. Matthew Friese is an engaging and inspiring speaker who makes meaningful topics relatable! I highly recommend listening to him speak!!

Four County

On-Site

M.Y., Counselor, Four County
Verified @outlook.com

Matt has a unique ability to communicate biblical truth in a way that is engaging, relatable, and personally meaningful. After years of finding it difficult to connect in church, his authentic and practical communication helped me better understand the transformation God can bring in our lives. His messages don’t simply provide information—they help people see how real transformation can impact the way they live.

USAF F16 Pilot

On-Site

M.S., Col, OPS Group Commander, USAF F16 Pilot
Verified @live.com

I have had the opportunity to hear Matt Friese speak on multiple occasions. He is an engaging and thoughtful speaker who connects everyday challenges with practical ways to manage stress, strengthen family relationships, and navigate the demands of daily life. His ability to draw from real-life experiences and connect them to faith provides meaningful encouragement while helping others find perspective, balance, and purpose.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

J.C., Commander FSS, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @outlook.com

Chaplain Friese always delivers a word in due season and communicates with intentionality and compassion. His speaking style is relatable and easy to follow, which keeps listeners engaged and leaves them impacted long afterwards. I strive to learn his approach towards speaking and emulate his methodologies.

Pleasant Prairie Baptist Church

On-Site

D.D.D., Senior Pastor, Pleasant Prairie Baptist Church
Verified @gmail.com

Pastor Matt Friese has a passion to see Christ's church flourish and become the influence in our world that God intended it to be. Along with that passion, Matt is able to formulate constructive steps to help any congregation move toward Bible-based health.

Tulsa Honor Academy

On-Site

J.M., Assistant Principal of Culture, Tulsa Honor Academy
Verified @gmail.com

He demonstrated such strong moral character and scholarship that he was immediately recognized as a leader among us. His kindness, compassion, and reflective communication style allowed him to connect with diverse groups of members, staff, and leadership alike.

OK National Guard

On-Site

A.A., Attended of ALOK26, OK National Guard
Verified @gmail.com

More Chaplain Friese. I love hearing that man speak. His energy and enthusiasm is contagious.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

C.B., Senior Enlisted Leader, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @gmail.com

Matt is a fantastic speaker with the unique ability to deliver and synthesize information in an engaging and captivating way. I love attending his events, as he makes you feel like more than just an attendee. I highly recommend Matt for any speaking engagement.

First Southern Baptist Church

On-Site

B.E., Chairman, Trustees, First Southern Baptist Church
Verified @gmail.com

As my pastor for 4+ years, Matt delivered the spiritual food we needed to hear each week. His messages are Christ-centered, practical applications of the Living Word. His communication is clear and strong, always driving home the key points and message.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

C.V., Weekend Participant, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @aol.com

Matt has a rare ability to make a large audience feel like he is speaking to each person individually. He connected authentically with a diverse group of military families, adapting naturally to the realities and distractions of a family event while making people feel understood rather than talked at. His delivery was personal, engaging, and relatable, and I would highly recommend him to organizations looking for a speaker who can genuinely connect with diverse audiences.

Trail Life

On-Site

P.M., Regional Coordinator, Trail Life
Verified @gmail.com

Matt Friese communicates his subject completely, so everyone gets the point he is talking about. Matt has great insight into Biblical principles. He has always completely explained the most complicated doctrine. Matt is truly a man of God

128 Air Refueling Wing

On-Site

N.S., Command Chief, 128 Air Refueling Wing
Verified @yahoo.com

As a couple, we have had our ups and downs, but our strength lies in our desire to understand each other. Strong Bond weekends have helped build our foundation, and we attribute much of our communication skills to what Chaplain Matt Friese taught us.

138 Fighter Wing

On-Site

T.C., Military Chaplain, Hospice Chaplain, Pastor, Author, 138 Fighter Wing
Verified @gmail.com

Matthew Friese is a highly skilled speaker who can engage audiences while providing valuable teaching and practical, life-changing tools to address a wide range of important topics. I would highly recommend without hesitation.

Wisconsin Air National Guard

On-Site

P.S., Chapel Superintendent, Wisconsin Air National Guard
Verified @msn.com

Chaplain Friese embodies true spiritual leadership, demonstrating a deep dedication to service and an unwavering faith girded in integrity.

Ford - Wulf - Bruns

On-Site

G.H., Funeral Assistant, Ford - Wulf - Bruns
Verified @yahoo.com

Very Compassionate, very good speaker, really prepared!

DISC Workshop

On-Site

R.G.C., Participant, DISC Workshop
Verified @gmail.com

Matt is easy to listen to & has a way of presenting that keeps my attention. My son & I both enjoyed the event. I enjoyed the ice breakers as well; great way to get people interested and talking!