Ben Killoy

Ben Killoy

WI, US

I help people get out of their own way and create real impact. No fluff. No gimmicks. Just raw truth, bold action, and the kind of leadership that changes everything—at work, at home, and in the mirror.

Ben Killoy: Transformational Leadership Coach and Inspirational Speaker


I’m Ben Killoy, a proud Marine Veteran, leadership coach, speaker, and workshop leader. I grew up on a farm in Southern Wisconsin and joined the United States Marine Corps right after high school. My journey from the Marines to civilian life wasn’t just about transition. It was about identity, responsibility, and finding the courage to lead with heart. Today, I help leaders create real impact by getting clear on who they are, what they stand for, and how they want to be remembered.


Qualifications and Unique Value Proposition

When I left the military in 2007, I was unprepared for the war within. No mission. No uniform. Just a quiet question—who am I now?


I know what it’s like to be driven but directionless. To look successful from the outside while feeling stuck on the inside. That experience didn’t break me. It built me. And it lit a fire to help others find their way back to themselves.


As the host of two podcasts with over 500 episodes, I’ve spent years helping others tell the truth they’ve been avoiding. My work helps audiences connect with a version of themselves they thought was gone. I’m a Marine who talks about emotions, who believes vulnerability is strength, and who knows that the most powerful leaders lead from within.


I help people make their impact felt in the room and long after it’s over.


What Your Audience Will Gain

When you bring me to your event, you're not just booking a speaker. You're bringing in someone who understands how to shift hearts, change minds, and spark action that sticks. My talks deliver both punch and presence, blending storytelling with practical insights.


Your audience will walk away with:


  • Clarity on the kind of impact they want to make and what’s been standing in the way
  • A deeper connection to their voice, values, and leadership identity
  • Tools to lead with empathy, conviction, and resilience
  • A renewed sense of responsibility for the mark they’re leaving at work, at home, and in life


Signature Keynotes and Potential Workshops

The Impact Within: Leading Yourself First


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Leaders at all levels seeking deeper clarity and confidence

Audience Takeaways:

  • Discover how personal patterns are limiting professional impact
  • Build self-leadership practices that amplify influence


Creating Impact Under Pressure: The Power of Response-Able Leadership


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Teams and managers navigating stress and uncertainty

Audience Takeaways:


  • Stay calm, clear, and connected in high-stakes situations
  • Become the emotional anchor your team needs most


The Impact Equation: Ownership, Awareness, and Authenticity


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Aspiring leaders and high-performers stuck in their own way

Audience Takeaways:

  • Learn how to take full ownership without burning out
  • Build trust through self-awareness and consistent action


Resilient Roots: Generational Impact in Agriculture


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Agricultural communities facing generational stress and change

Audience Takeaways:

  • Understand how unresolved trauma limits generational progress
  • Create a new legacy built on healing, growth, and impact


Fatherhood with Impact: How to Lead at Home Like It Matters


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Fathers, father figures, and men navigating work and family life

Audience Takeaways:

  • Show up with purpose and presence in your home
  • Lead your family with compassion, patience, and integrity


Anchors in the Storm: Fatherhood that Leaves a Legacy


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Dads ready to deepen their role and model emotional leadership

Audience Takeaways:

  • Respond with intention, not reaction
  • Lead in a way that builds generational impact at home


Impressive Testimonials

Ben Killoy brought a unique presentation to our Speaker Series! His message was well-received and appreciated by our diverse audience of adult learners, educators, and community members. Ben was also great to work with, accommodating, and personable! He has a positive outlook and great energy that translates well across the screen and in a group setting.

— H.P., ALUMNI AND COMMUNITY RELATIONS, NATIONAL UNIVERSITY


Moving, inspirational and straight to the heart. These are all words that would explain the message spoken by Ben Killoy at our 2023 Memorial Day Ceremonies. Ben’s message touched the attending Veterans, evoking memories of friends and fellow servicemen lost in battle. It also touched the families and friends of servicemen who gave their all not only during war but who lost their own personal battles when they returned to civilian life. Ben gave comfort to those still struggling and gave them the courage and confidence to reach out to others for help. His words of “Share Your Story” were so very powerful for all.

— T.R., ORGANIZER, AMERICAN LEGION


Brought Ben Killoy to speak at the inaugural Military Creator Con, a micro-con of Podfest to share his experience as a host of an interview show. The experience he brought to the audience was overwhelming! His knowledge, authenticity, and transparency surely made him the crowd favorite. He put a smile on each person's face he talked to as he welcomed them into his life! A must-have a guest on any stage as you’ll get much more value than you could ever pay for.

— J.L., ORGANIZER, MILITARY CREATOR CON

Ben Killoy: Transformational Leadership Coach and Inspirational Speaker


I’m Ben Killoy, a proud Marine Veteran, leadership coach, speaker, and workshop leader. I grew up on a farm in Southern Wisconsin and joined the United States Marine Corps right after high school. My journey from the Marines to civilian life wasn’t just about transition. It was about identity, responsibility, and finding the courage to lead with heart. Today, I help leaders create real impact by getting clear on who they are, what they stand for, and how they want to be remembered.


Qualifications and Unique Value Proposition

When I left the military in 2007, I was unprepared for the war within. No mission. No uniform. Just a quiet question—who am I now?


I know what it’s like to be driven but directionless. To look successful from the outside while feeling stuck on the inside. That experience didn’t break me. It built me. And it lit a fire to help others find their way back to themselves.


As the host of two podcasts with over 500 episodes, I’ve spent years helping others tell the truth they’ve been avoiding. My work helps audiences connect with a version of themselves they thought was gone. I’m a Marine who talks about emotions, who believes vulnerability is strength, and who knows that the most powerful leaders lead from within.


I help people make their impact felt in the room and long after it’s over.


What Your Audience Will Gain

When you bring me to your event, you're not just booking a speaker. You're bringing in someone who understands how to shift hearts, change minds, and spark action that sticks. My talks deliver both punch and presence, blending storytelling with practical insights.


Your audience will walk away with:


  • Clarity on the kind of impact they want to make and what’s been standing in the way
  • A deeper connection to their voice, values, and leadership identity
  • Tools to lead with empathy, conviction, and resilience
  • A renewed sense of responsibility for the mark they’re leaving at work, at home, and in life


Signature Keynotes and Potential Workshops

The Impact Within: Leading Yourself First


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Leaders at all levels seeking deeper clarity and confidence

Audience Takeaways:

  • Discover how personal patterns are limiting professional impact
  • Build self-leadership practices that amplify influence


Creating Impact Under Pressure: The Power of Response-Able Leadership


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Teams and managers navigating stress and uncertainty

Audience Takeaways:


  • Stay calm, clear, and connected in high-stakes situations
  • Become the emotional anchor your team needs most


The Impact Equation: Ownership, Awareness, and Authenticity


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Aspiring leaders and high-performers stuck in their own way

Audience Takeaways:

  • Learn how to take full ownership without burning out
  • Build trust through self-awareness and consistent action


Resilient Roots: Generational Impact in Agriculture


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Agricultural communities facing generational stress and change

Audience Takeaways:

  • Understand how unresolved trauma limits generational progress
  • Create a new legacy built on healing, growth, and impact


Fatherhood with Impact: How to Lead at Home Like It Matters


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Fathers, father figures, and men navigating work and family life

Audience Takeaways:

  • Show up with purpose and presence in your home
  • Lead your family with compassion, patience, and integrity


Anchors in the Storm: Fatherhood that Leaves a Legacy


Format: 60-minute keynote (with optional workshop)

Perfect for: Dads ready to deepen their role and model emotional leadership

Audience Takeaways:

  • Respond with intention, not reaction
  • Lead in a way that builds generational impact at home


Impressive Testimonials

Ben Killoy brought a unique presentation to our Speaker Series! His message was well-received and appreciated by our diverse audience of adult learners, educators, and community members. Ben was also great to work with, accommodating, and personable! He has a positive outlook and great energy that translates well across the screen and in a group setting.

— H.P., ALUMNI AND COMMUNITY RELATIONS, NATIONAL UNIVERSITY


Moving, inspirational and straight to the heart. These are all words that would explain the message spoken by Ben Killoy at our 2023 Memorial Day Ceremonies. Ben’s message touched the attending Veterans, evoking memories of friends and fellow servicemen lost in battle. It also touched the families and friends of servicemen who gave their all not only during war but who lost their own personal battles when they returned to civilian life. Ben gave comfort to those still struggling and gave them the courage and confidence to reach out to others for help. His words of “Share Your Story” were so very powerful for all.

— T.R., ORGANIZER, AMERICAN LEGION


Brought Ben Killoy to speak at the inaugural Military Creator Con, a micro-con of Podfest to share his experience as a host of an interview show. The experience he brought to the audience was overwhelming! His knowledge, authenticity, and transparency surely made him the crowd favorite. He put a smile on each person's face he talked to as he welcomed them into his life! A must-have a guest on any stage as you’ll get much more value than you could ever pay for.

— J.L., ORGANIZER, MILITARY CREATOR CON

Response-Able Leadership: Being the Lighthouse in a Storm Workshop

Format: 60 minute Keynote


This program is perfect for:

- Leaders and managers facing high-pressure situations

- Individuals seeking to enhance their leadership skills in challenging environments


The audience will leave with:

- Strategies to maintain composure and clarity under pressure

- Techniques for creating a supportive and stable environment for their teams


In the "Response-Able Leadership:...

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Have Extreme Ownership as a Self-Aware Leader Workshop

Format: 45minute Workshop

This program is perfect for:

  • Aspiring leaders who doubt their capabilities
  • Individuals recognizing their own barriers to effective leadership

The audience will leave with:

  • Insights into how personal obstacles can hinder leadership effectiveness.
  • Strategies for overcoming self-imposed barriers and embracing full responsibility.

"Have Extreme Ownership as a Self-Aware Leader" is a...

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Adaptive Leadership: Identifying Your Constants and Variables Workshop

Format: 45 minute Breakout Session


This program is perfect for:

- Leaders navigating change within their organizations

- Individuals seeking to balance core values with flexibility


The audience will leave with:

- Knowledge of how to discern between constants and variables in leadership

- Strategies for maintaining a balance between conviction and adaptability


"Adaptive Leadership: Identifying Your...

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Seeds of Resilience: Overcoming Generational Trauma in Agriculture

Format: 60 minute Keynote


This program is perfect for:

  • Members of the agricultural community dealing with generational challenges.
  • Individuals seeking to break the cycle of trauma and cultivate resilience.


The audience will leave with:

  • Understanding of how generational trauma affects individuals and communities within the agricultural sector.
  • Practical strategies for healing and overcoming the...
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Response-Able Fatherhood Workshop

Format: 8-hour Workshop


This program is perfect for:

- Fathers seeking to strengthen their role within the family

- Men looking to enhance their emotional intelligence and leadership in family settings


The audience will leave with:

- Skills to respond thoughtfully and calmly in challenging family situations

- Strategies to foster a nurturing, inclusive, and supportive family environment


The...

FamilyLeadershipInspirational / Life-changingAgriculture

Anchors in the Storm: The Art of Response-Able Fatherhood

Format: 60 minute Keynote


Title: "Anchors in the Storm: The Art of Response-Able Fatherhood"


This program is perfect for:

- Fathers and father figures seeking to deepen their impact and leadership within the family

- Individuals looking to inspire and be inspired by the transformative power of intentional fatherhood


The audience will leave with:

- Empowered insights to navigate the complex dynamics of...

FamilyInspirational / Life-changingAgriculture

Building Bridges: Mastering Relationships and Communication in Leadership

Building Bridges: Mastering Relationships and Communication in Leadership


Format: 60-minute interactive workshop  


This program is perfect for:

- Team leaders and managers who are feeling overworked and burned out  

- HR professionals seeking to enhance team dynamics and communication  


The audience will leave with:

- Practical tools to build trust, resolve conflicts, and...

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