Abbriana Cox

HELLO MY NAME IS ABBRIANA!

And the most important thing you should know is that I am an avid advocate of becoming an expert of self. During my own journey I learned a few things about myself:

1. I love my family especially the little one that calls me mommy.
2. Karaoke, Good Stories, and Great Food with Amazing People feed my soul.
3. I am a hopeless romantic, and believe everyone deserves love that helps them glow and grow.
4. Assisting build my community lights my world just as bright as my son does.
5. I am a fanatic lover of story telling in all its forms and learn some of my best lessons from this.
6. I love planning a good shindig or excursion.
7. And my life’s mission is to help guide others, especially the self-parented, into alignment of their Happily Ever After.

And I was able to discover and embody these things and more due to my very first lesson learned…..Fairytales do exist for ALL of us. This one realization changed my entire out look on life and my lived reality entirely. Allowing me to birth Fairytale Alchemy into this world.

Many of us go through the motions of life not realizing that battling and defeating one of  man’s biggest foe could free us from so much. And that foe is named Comparison. I can admit that in moderation it can lead to some of the greatest discoveries and accomplishments. However, the dark side of it in excess is the destruction of self worth and happiness.

We compare our life stories, successes, relationships, failures, etc. in order to make ourselves feel better or make others feel worse. We feel that we have to follow this one size fit all of perfect version of “success” in order to be happy or accomplished. But who gets to dictate what is successful? And why does it have to be born from the most chaotic of circumstances? I haven’t quite figured the answer to the latter but I have figured out the best suited answer for the first. And the right answer is YOU! There is no one size fit all for something so personal as fulfillment of life.

Learning this allowed me to realize the audacity of telling people who they are and what they had the capabilities to do. Because who am I? In the larger view of your life I am truly just a blimp a  moment in time that has the capabilities to be 3 things: affective/inspiring, neutral/unimportant, or down right disastrous. And which category I end up depends on my actions/words during our interaction and how they play against the foundation you have set in place. While my goal in this lifetime is to inspire I know this will only be dependent on what you take away from any message I portray. So I choose to speak whenever possible so that those who want or need what I have to give can receive it wherever they find me.