L. Lavon Gray

L. Lavon Gray

PhD, MBA, CSP

MS, US
VISION. VITALITY. VICTORY. We partner with organizations to foster and drive organizational health and growth.

Organizational Conflict Specialist... Award-Winning Author...
Business Owner...
Professor...
NCAA Football Referee...
These are just a few of the hats worn by Dr. Lavon Gray.


From conference rooms filled with bully bosses and passive aggressive co-workers, to college football stadiums filled with screaming coaches and out of control fans, when it comes to conflict, Lavon has seen it all. More importantly, he learned to thrive in the middle of the chaos! As a result, over the past thirty years Lavon has accumulated more than 7,000 hours of platform experience helping leaders across the United States resolve conflict, gain traction, and lead their organizations to healthier futures.


A professional member of the National Speaker's Association, Lavon holds certificates in mediation from Northwestern University and conflict resolution from Cornell University, and is a certified speaker and leadership coach with The John Maxwell Team. He has written five books, including Never Wrestle with Pigs: A Survival Guide for Dealing with Difficult Personalities, and developed the Organizational Conflict IndexTM to help organizations identify their internal conflict levels and develop strategies that promote organization health. In addition to his work as a professional speaker, Lavon is co-founder, co-owner and managing partner for The Blue Hen Agency in Hattiesburg, Mississippi.

Organizational Conflict Specialist... Award-Winning Author...
Business Owner...
Professor...
NCAA Football Referee...
These are just a few of the hats worn by Dr. Lavon Gray.


From conference rooms filled with bully bosses and passive aggressive co-workers, to college football stadiums filled with screaming coaches and out of control fans, when it comes to conflict, Lavon has seen it all. More importantly, he learned to thrive in the middle of the chaos! As a result, over the past thirty years Lavon has accumulated more than 7,000 hours of platform experience helping leaders across the United States resolve conflict, gain traction, and lead their organizations to healthier futures.


A professional member of the National Speaker's Association, Lavon holds certificates in mediation from Northwestern University and conflict resolution from Cornell University, and is a certified speaker and leadership coach with The John Maxwell Team. He has written five books, including Never Wrestle with Pigs: A Survival Guide for Dealing with Difficult Personalities, and developed the Organizational Conflict IndexTM to help organizations identify their internal conflict levels and develop strategies that promote organization health. In addition to his work as a professional speaker, Lavon is co-founder, co-owner and managing partner for The Blue Hen Agency in Hattiesburg, Mississippi.

Never Wrestle with Pigs: Dealing with Difficult Personalities

Conflict is an unavoidable part of life. Unfortunately, we have a tendency to fight battles that aren't all that important, which leaves us too tired to fight the ones we need to win. This keynote uses humor to focus on various personality types found in the workplace and how leaders can effectively navigate conflict.

Format: ​45-Minute Keynote

This program is perfect for:
​Conventions, Conferences
After-Dinner Speeches
Corporate Events
The audience will...

Conflict ResolutionAudience ActivityEducational / InformativeHumorous / Funny

Choose to Defuse: Conflict Resolution in the Heat of the Battle

With over 30 years experience, Lavon Gray has seen his share of conflict! In Choose to Defuse, Gray relates principles learned as a NCAA baseball and football official to the workplace providing tools for effective conflict resolution.

Recent research indicates U.S. companies lose over $359 billion every year because of organizational conflict. But while conflict is inevitable, it doesn't have to be unhealthy. The Choose to Defuse™ Workshop focuses on identifying anger triggers,...
Audience ActivityEducational / InformativeHumorous / Funny

Define Your Tomorrow: Shaping Organizations and Teams for Success

I believe individuals and organizations are not defined by yesterday, but rather how they shape tomorrow. 

Format: ​45-Minute Keynote
 
This program is perfect for:
  • ​Conventions, Conferences
  • After-Dinner Speeches
  • Corporate Events
The audience will leave with:
  • ​An appreciation for overcoming adversity in life.
  • An understanding...
Inspirational / Life-changingHumorous / Funny