Elayne Savage
PhD
CA, USElayne Savage is called The Queen of Rejection®. She'll show you how not to take rejection and disappointment so personally in workplace and personal relationships.
Misunderstandings and hurt feelings lead to growing resentment: "What did she mean?" "Why did he look at me that way?" "Why did he ignore me?" Before you know it, someone fillis in the blanks with rejecting meanings, feels disrespected and takes it personally.
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a full-blown 'personality conflict?' Do you spend hours ruminating and agonizing about perceived slights? When productivity is affected this way, emotional costs translate into dollars lost.
Dr. Savage shows managers and staff:
• how to keep workplace tension from resulting in lost productivity
• use innovative tools for handling criticism and misunderstandings, clearing the way for connection and teamwork
• discover creative strategies and new options to enhance work and personal relationships
She is equally effective in one-on-one coaching or motivating audiences of 5 to 500 – keynotes, seminars, breakout sessions, communication coaching, consulting, and retreats.
Clients include: The Commonwealth Club of California; Levi Strauss Company; Chiron; National School Board Association; The Learning Annex, San Francisco, San Diego, Los Angeles; Junior League of Oakland-East Bay, Inc; NSA/Colorado; Women's Council of Realtors; Highland Hospital, CalWORKS Partnerships, San Francisco Housing Authority, University of California, Berkeley, Davis, and San Francisco
More: http://www.queenofrejection.com/clients.htm
Elayne Savage is called The Queen of Rejection®. She'll show you how not to take rejection and disappointment so personally in workplace and personal relationships.
Misunderstandings and hurt feelings lead to growing resentment: "What did she mean?" "Why did he look at me that way?" "Why did he ignore me?" Before you know it, someone fillis in the blanks with rejecting meanings, feels disrespected and takes it personally.
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a full-blown 'personality conflict?' Do you spend hours ruminating and agonizing about perceived slights? When productivity is affected this way, emotional costs translate into dollars lost.
Dr. Savage shows managers and staff:
• how to keep workplace tension from resulting in lost productivity
• use innovative tools for handling criticism and misunderstandings, clearing the way for connection and teamwork
• discover creative strategies and new options to enhance work and personal relationships
She is equally effective in one-on-one coaching or motivating audiences of 5 to 500 – keynotes, seminars, breakout sessions, communication coaching, consulting, and retreats.
Clients include: The Commonwealth Club of California; Levi Strauss Company; Chiron; National School Board Association; The Learning Annex, San Francisco, San Diego, Los Angeles; Junior League of Oakland-East Bay, Inc; NSA/Colorado; Women's Council of Realtors; Highland Hospital, CalWORKS Partnerships, San Francisco Housing Authority, University of California, Berkeley, Davis, and San Francisco
More: http://www.queenofrejection.com/clients.htm
Grandma Passes Down More Than Her China - A Fresh Perspective On Diversity
Grandma passes down more than just her china - Grandpa does too. Each family has different beliefs, values, expectations, fears, and ways of doing things. These are passed down from generation to generation and infiltrate our work and personal relationships.
This innovative diversity training presents effective ways to respect those differences and enhance your relationships.
Why Can't You Read My Mind? Coping with Expectations And Disappointments
Unstated wishes and unrealistic expectations are set-ups for disappointments in romantic, work, friendships and romance.
Get your relationships back on track by giving clear messages rather than hints or indirect requests. Learn Seven Surefire Ways to Keep from Getting Disappointed and how to ask for what you need.
Managing Misunderstandings and Missteps - Sharpening Your Communication Skills
Learn effective ways to respect style differences, avoid conflicts, handle stress and apprehension, recognize your needs and maximize your options. Discover how to feel "heard" and not "hurt" in the process.
Yes, it is possible to change your response to another person instead of trying to change that person's style. Although we can't always manage others' actions, we can manage our own reactions.
Dr. Elayne Savage shows you how to redirect your energy and make space for...
Don't Take It Personally! The Art of Dealing With Rejection
Who hasn't felt the sting of rejection? Our feelings can get hurt so easily - an unreturned phone call, the disappointment and disillusionment of unfulfilled anticipation. It's hard not to take these things personally.
By understanding the forms rejection takes and where it comes from, you can overcome the fear of it and create options for yourself.
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Isn't it annoying when someone has an "attitude," takes all the credit for a project or blames others for their own mistakes? Isn't it frustrating dealing with complainers, back-stabbers and saboteurs?
Discover effective ways to sidestep misunderstandings, anger, and resentment. By recognizing and appreciating style differences you are able to avoid "personality conflicts." You can lessen your exasperation and not take things so personally!
Get Out Of Your Own Way - Overcoming Fears That Hold You Back
Does fear of rejection stop you in your tracks? Do you freeze up or drag your feet? Are you sabotaging yourself?
Let's take a look at what happens to your ability to follow through on that proposal, that e-mail, that phone call, or that recent romantic encounter. Maybe it's the fear of failure or it's evil twin the fear of rejection. Could it be fear of success?
Understand where these roadblocks come from and what to do about them. Learn some techniques for putting yourself...
