Kathie Gwilliam

Comparison quietly undermines confidence, contentment, innovation, and cooperation–but it doesn’t have to. Kathie Gwilliam has spent 20 years practicing a formula she developed to replace the habit of comparison that often hinders personal growth. Living a content and happy life, she embraces appreciation for others, seeks inspiration from those around her, and recognizes the good she already possesses. Her mission is to empower others to live the same way. Kathie helps individuals understand the detrimental impact of comparison in personal, family, and professional spheres, and equip them with actionable tools to intentionally replace comparative thoughts and behaviors. With her SOAR formula, individuals can cultivate healthy habits that amplify joy, contentment, confidence, and success, while fostering stronger relationships.

Kathie hosts the weekly podcast Project Confidence, is the author of five picture books, and has a highly anticipated inspirational nonfiction book on overcoming social comparison set for publication in 2027. She has a BA in Human Development and Family Studies from the University of Utah and has experience working in multiple areas of education.  

She currently lives in Riverton Utah with her husband, two sons, and three daughters. Reading, hiking, traveling, chocolate chip cookies, and sunrises are a few of her favorite things.

6 Reasons to Hire Kathie, According to Workshop Attendees:

1. She’s Relatable:
   “I appreciate the real-life experiences that allowed this knowledge to build and be shared. It was very relatable.”
2. She Opens Minds:
   “If you think you don’t compare yourself to others, you are probably wrong and you don’t even know it. Come find out why that matters.”
3. She Makes It Personal:
   “I liked how you made us think of a time when we had compared ourselves. It is easy to think ‘this would be so good for so and so’ without internalizing it ourselves.”
4. She Highlights a Universal Issue:
   “Helpful and valid. It is a subject that everyone deals with.”
5. She Offers a Life-Changing Process:
   “Her lesson is one for your whole life.”
6. She Inspires Action:
   “Getting rid of a comparison mindset.”

Kathie’s most requested keynotes/workshops are:

Project Confidence: Becoming Confidence and Content Through Canceling Comparison

This introduces Kathie's innovative four-step SOAR program, designed to help individuals identify and overcome the harmful effects of comparison in both personal and leadership roles, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and content life.

Different by Design: Ideal for children and youth.

Based on her book No One is Quite Like You, Kathie guides youth on a journey to embrace their unique talents, abilities, and individuality. This keynote empowers young audiences to celebrate what makes them special while learning to value the unique qualities in others, leaving comparison behind.